Characteristics of people suitable for living in a share house
A shared house is a very different environment from living alone, but what kind of people are they suitable for?- People with strong communication skills
- A cooperative person
- People who enjoy new environments
I will explain each one.
People with strong communication skills
People with strong communication skills can build trusting relationships with residents through daily interactions. Even if troubles or problems arise, they will be able to create opportunities to resolve them through caution and discussion.Some share houses also have foreign residents. Some people have trouble living in and out of the house due to rules that differ from common sense for Japanese people and differences in culture.
These issues can be resolved through active communication, listening to the other person's opinions and concerns, and exchanging ideas.
A cooperative person
Since a shared house brings together many different people, it requires mutual respect and cooperation.
To avoid trouble, there are rules for shared spaces such as the kitchen and bathroom. Using the spaces for long periods of time or not following the designated order can lead to trouble. Since people have different lifestyles, it is necessary to be considerate of noises late at night.
People who understand the differences in each other's values and are willing to compromise are likely to be suited to living in a shared house.
People who enjoy new environments
If you enjoy meeting new people and communicating with others, a shared house might be a good fit for you.
It is true that some people become stressed due to differences in values and lifestyles, but if you are flexible enough to adapt to a new environment and are not tied to your own habits, you will be able to live a better life together.
Benefits of a share house
There are many benefits to living in a shared house, including costs and human relationships.
- Cost reduction
- Building new relationships
- Improving life skills
I will explain three points here.
Cost reduction
The biggest advantage of a shared house is the low monthly costs.
- Lower price than average rent
- Utility bills are often included in the common area fee as a fixed amount.
- Daily necessities provided free of charge
You can reduce food costs by purchasing rice, seasonings, etc. together. You can also save money by getting discounts for bulk purchases and preventing food waste due to expired items.
Building new relationships
Living in a shared house offers great opportunities for building new relationships and personal growth.
Interacting with people from different backgrounds can lead to new discoveries and new stimulation, which can help you grow. By participating in parties and social gatherings within the house, you can make friends with common hobbies and meet people who can lead to business opportunities.
By actively participating in daily interactions and events, you can expand your friendship and work network.
Improving life skills
A share house is a place where you live under common rules with others while maintaining your own lifestyle. It requires the ability to manage your own life while also working in harmony with others, which leads to strengthening your independence and management skills.Some properties allow childcare. It is an environment where information and experiences can be shared, so you can learn practical child-rearing methods from experienced people and share your concerns. Living together can help you develop social skills and improve your children's communication skills.
Characteristics of people who are not suited to living in a share house
So far we have explained who is suitable for living in a shared house, but now we will explain who is not suitable.
- People who value privacy
- People who can't follow the rules
- People who hate change
Let's look at each one.
People who value privacy
Since almost all spaces other than one's own room are shared, people who value personal space may feel stressed.
- Prefers a quiet environment
- I don't like large group interactions such as parties.
- I don't like to talk about myself much
- I am reluctant to use something that other people have used.
As mentioned above, people who are not good at communicating or who are obsessive-compulsive and cannot stand using toilets or bathrooms that have been used by others are not suited to living in a shared house.
People who can't follow the rules
In a share house, there are rules to ensure that residents can live together in a smooth relationship. People who cannot follow the rules not only disrupt the atmosphere, but also the lives of the other residents.
The main complaints among residents are as follows:
- noise
- Inviting friends or loved ones over without permission
- Leave personal belongings in the common area
- Not following cleaning and trash disposal rules
- Long-term use of toilets, bathrooms, washrooms, etc.
According to the Ministry of Land, Infrastructure, Transport and Tourism's "Survey on Market Trends for Share Houses," 25.7% of all problems are "noise." Although people have different daily activity times, it is necessary to be considerate of each other even when it comes to daily noise.
Reference: Ministry of Land, Infrastructure, Transport and Tourism Share House Market Trend Survey Results
https://www.mlit.go.jp/common/001151588.pdf
People who hate change
In a shared house, where many different people move in and out, the living environment is not constant.
When residents change, relationships change and the rules of daily life need to be adjusted. People who are comfortable with a fixed lifestyle may feel stressed with every change.
The key to living together is to be flexible and adaptable.
How to choose a share house
There are two main points to consider when choosing a share house:
- Find a share house that suits your lifestyle
- The Importance of Advance Communication
Let's check them one by one.
Find a share house that suits your lifestyle
Although they are all called share houses, they come in a variety of sizes, depending on the number of people living there and the concept they have.
Your compatibility with the community and the environment will greatly affect your satisfaction with life there. Be sure to check the tenant information and the atmosphere of the property on the website in advance.
It's also a good idea to ask directly when you view the property whether you think you'll be able to fit in with the community and whether it suits your lifestyle.
The Importance of Advance Communication
Before moving into a share house, it is a good idea to view the property. By communicating with current residents in advance, you can get a sense of the living environment. Please refer to the following points when talking to them.
- Are the rules for shared spaces followed?
- Is there good communication between residents?
- How do you share household chores?
Choose a time when you will have a chance to talk to many residents, such as on a weekend or a weekday evening when they are home from work.
Summary: When living in a shared house, follow the rules and communicate proactively!
Even though you live together in a share house, if you don't interact with each other, you won't know each other. Listening to and respecting each other's feelings and opinions will help you live together smoothly. Keep these points in mind to have a fulfilling share house life. I hope this article was helpful.
